Talk about happiness

山清水秀 · 发表于 2007-12-14 20:27:52

I feel very tired these days .And I am not very happy .Maybe there is too much stress in my work and life. Today I read a passage in a magazine . I get more ideas . It just opens my mind .
We all know people who have had a relatively easy life yet are essentially unhappy . And we know people who have suffered a great deal but gengerally remain happy . The first secret is gratitude. All happy people are greteful . Ungrateful people can not be happy . We tend to think that being unhappy leads people to complain , but it's truer to say that complain leads to people being unhappy .
Anyone can be unhappy . It takes no courage and effort . True achievement lies in struggling to be happy . The motion that we have to work at happiness comes as news to many people . We assume it's a feeling that comes as a result of good things that just happen to us , things over which we have little or no control . But the oppositie is true : happiness is largely under our control . It's a battle to be found and not a feeling to be awaited .
I have known clearly that to achieve a happy life ,it's nacessary to overcome some stumbling blocks , of course , I wiil try my best bacause I love life . And I have no doubt I will make a succsee of my work and life .

伊人独酌 · 发表于 2007-12-15 11:08:12

Yes, be happy or not happy is just related to the attitude of the life

Dean · 发表于 2007-12-17 17:12:51

Be positive towards life and you will be happy. Of course there are ups and downs in our life. When we are down we should think of the happy time we have had or we will have in the future. Then we will feel happy. When we are happy we should think there are some other people who are down and we should try to make them happy.

山清水秀 · 发表于 2007-12-17 18:21:44

Everyone is happy. we are happy . Better to give than to recieve .

Dean · 发表于 2007-12-17 18:47:59

We should take less than what we can give. To gi\\ve more than what we take.

弄潮儿 · 发表于 2007-12-17 21:55:14

i'm not happy.

文远 · 发表于 2007-12-18 00:09:28

引用第5楼弄潮儿于12-17-2007 21:55发表的 :
i'm not happy.

what is the problem? just speak out and be yourself. learn to get new things, new happiness, new friends. keeping the aim is also important. with the aim, you can work effeciently, happly and have more passion towards life.

伊人独酌 · 发表于 2007-12-18 12:03:56

Yes, you should find the reason that why you are not happy and then try to solve the problem

伊人独酌 · 发表于 2007-12-18 12:15:23

If it is possible, we are glad to help you find the solution

Dean · 发表于 2007-12-18 14:26:01

Yes, Good friends should share both joy and sorrow.

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