Marriage is for love?

Dean

Marriage is for love?

I read a report about wedding ceremony and marriage expenses in Chinadaily today. The average cost of a wedding in Shanghai city this year soared to 160,000 yuan (US$19,277), up 30 percent from last year, according to the Shanghai Wedding Trade Association. But one of the a would-be bride said she will not spend so much money on her wedding. \"To hold a wedding is not to pursue luxury. An expensive ceremony does not mean anything,\" she said. \"It is love, mutual trust and tolerance that ensure a happy marriage. \" Marriage is for love, mutual trust, tolerance, and loyalty. I have different ideas about marriage. i think Marriage for love is just a short period of time. Marriage for mutual trust should be all the time. Sometimes tolerance is needed for marriage. As for loyalty it is just an old concept. There need to be some privacy in marriage. Responsibility is also very important in marriage. A few days ago when i chatted with my friend about marriage i told her that marriage is just like a law. If you are a good citizen and obey the law you will keep your oath of the wedding. But many people don't obey the rules and have extra-marital sex with others. They are outlaws. What can we do with the outlaws? Kill them or tolerate them? Nowadays many cases of marriage breakup are caused by extra-marital sex affairs. If they face the reality and be aware of the new concept of marriage they may keep on the relation by tolerating each other.