看美国论坛里白人女人们是怎么看亚洲男人的

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I fell in love with a asian guy in my mid twenties. I am a Russian American, came to the states during high school. I thought American men (white guys) would be gentlmen and heros. Boy was I wrong ! I stopped dating for a few years then accidently met my current boy friend. A asian guy about 14 years older (and wiser then me). And just to set things straight, he wasnt chaing young skirts, I chased him and it took almost a year to get his attention. As for the negative rumors. I know exactly where they start from. They start from white guys who are jealous and are perpetuated by asian girls who don't want to share asian guys with other girls. Several asian girls (classmates) started taking a interest in me just after I met my boy friend. They did nothing but try to discourage me from dating asian men by saying those exact rumors. Ladies, if you haven't lived in Europe you don't know yet what sexist men really are!!!! And as for the white american guys, they are exactly the reason why I left the dating seen for several years. They just cannt hold their ****s in their pants. Sleeping with every girl they can, especially asian girls. My last white boy friend was sleeping with over 20 asian girls while he was dating me !!! For a while I really hated asians, but this characteristics don't seem to extend to the asian males as I found out. They are a lot more work, family and home orientated then white guys. If my asian boy friend says he'll be home for dinner, he will be home and if he says he is studying at the library, surely enough he is. Just one thing, his mom isnt too crazy about the idea of a
white girl dating his son... sigh... my dad on the other hand is dancing for joy I am not dating a russian guy. Figure?!?!? But then again my dad worked for Nasa and is considered a genius, so who am I to second guess him. I am sure we'll be getting married soon. Knock on wood I dont screw anything up.

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Umm Umm, well I can't say that I am white. I am hispanic, born in Houston, Texas, of spanish decent, parents from Mexico. In college, I dated a vietnamese guy for 3 years. Though I never met his parents, he met my mom, and my mom loved him, still does! After him, I dated another vietnamese male. He was much taller and more built, 5'8\", more american. I am about 5'3\". I dated him for about 2 years, met his mom, she was very polite. Though she was nice to me, I am sure she preferred I were vietnamese. This second guy never met my parents (mom). I am currently single. In my opinion, the most important thing in an interracial relationship is the way the two individuals feel about each other. When it comes down to it, if two people really care about one another, parents, friends, and other issues are unimportant. The only thing that matters is love! With that, you can go anywhere!----------

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在美国，跨族婚姻很普遍。与亚洲人通婚的白人多是男人和亚洲女人在一起，而亚洲男人同白人女人在一起的例子不是很多。从这些白人女性所讨论的内容来看，白人女性对亚洲男人还是有好感的，但也有一些偏见。比如说，身才不够高大，性方面不能满足白种女人，脾气不好，老一辈对儿女干涉太多，宗教不同，下一代教育问题等等。比较严重的偏见是在性方面。一是亚洲男人的SIZE不够，二是亚州男人对性的过分要求。难听点儿说，就是性心有余而性力不足。但这两点，对于同亚洲男人有性经验的白人女人来说，都是不成立的。她们都同意，跨族婚姻最重要的还是要看两个人的感情，这一点，可以看出天下女性的宽容谦让的共性和对感情方面和睦的追求。

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以上是在一个美国网站的论坛上，一个在和中国男人恋爱的犹太姑娘发贴而引起的讨论。她想知道其他人对白人女性同亚州男性相处有什么看法。回贴的人很多，有白人，黑人，拉美人，还有在北美出生的亚洲男性和女性。因篇幅太多，只选择一些有代表性的白人女ID回贴。


比较有意思的是一个俄罗斯姑娘PINKLACES的回贴，文中透露出她对亚州男人说到做到的欣赏和对学校里美国男生乱搞和亚州女生乱睡的鄙视。

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还有一个有趣的现象是一些在北美出生的亚洲男孩和从移民来的亚洲姑娘的态度。因篇幅太长，没有登在这里。但他们的观点很有意思。这些在北美出生的亚裔男生回贴中反复强调他们是如何与其他亚洲男人不同，他们是如何身强力壮，只喜欢白人女孩，不喜欢亚洲女孩。他们认为因为他们和白人女孩生长在一起，容易沟通。而亚洲女孩太懦弱，听话，没主见。反之，从亚洲移民来的女孩则大赞亚洲男人勤劳吃苦,重视家庭,爱自己女人的美德。


再有一点可以看出，美国网站论坛里成人们之间讨论问题时就事论事所表现出的成熟和礼貌。这一点值得所有参加中文网站论坛的网友们学习,包括我自己。