愉快的婚姻可以长寿

伊人独酌

引用第5楼Dean于11-05-2007 09:01发表的 :
Good marriage needs passion and excitment and it requires trust, understanding, responsibility and compromise, too. Some experts say that passion can only last no more than a year. If that is true how can we keep our marriage on without passion?

I don't think that passion only can last no more than a year.
My temper is not very good, but my future husband endure for more than 5 years

伊人独酌

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Dean

In order to have a good marriage and make it last longer we should try to keep our passion fresh all the time. A trip to the place where we dated before is a good way to arouse our passion and excitment. Reading a love story together or watch movies together is exciting, too. Redecorating your bedroom once in a while can make your life fresh and colorful.

伊人独酌

I think frequent communication is the key point

Dean

Sure, communication is very important to remove misunderstanding between husband and wife. A good marriage needs understanding. So it is necessary for couples to exchange their thoughts often.

伊人独酌

Sometimes, I always guess what he is thinking, and I always think my guessing is rights and do as what I though, but most of the time, I am wrong.

Dean

Don't always depend on guesswork. Guess works well but sometimes it leads to misunderstanding. That's why communication is very important in marriage.

伊人独酌

Yes, I agree. Anyway, it is a complex topic.
But everything has two ways, one is good, the other is bad. So the world is still in balance.

Dean

That's right. Every coin has two sides. The thing is that we should balance them and try to make them in harmony. It is wise to learn to \"stop where it should stop\" (适可而止) or \"not over do it\". For example, Wine is good for health but if drinking too much it will do darm. so “\"喝酒要适可而止。” Drink moderately. / Don't overdo it. / Please don't drink too much.

伊人独酌

Dean, your thinking is so active, you must be a good teacher and a worker.
Where are you working, what district?